And here’s the kicker: your kids are watching. They’re soaking up everything you do, like tiny, sticky-fingered sponges. When you show up for yourself—when you say, “I deserve to feel sexy, confident, and alive”—you’re teaching them that they deserve the same. You’re showing your daughter that her worth isn’t tied to how much she sacrifices. You’re showing your son that women are forces of nature, not just caretakers. You’re modeling what it looks like to say, “I’m here, I’m fabulous, and I’m not apologizing for it.”