Fat is a Four Letter Word.

The most common objection I hear when I ask ladies if they’ve ever had a boudoir session, or when they’d like to book is:  “I’m too fat.” Or“Maybe when I lose some weight.”

“Fat” is a word that keeps us from doing so many things.  It holds us back from enjoying life.

“I wish I could wear that.”  You can but we tell ourselves that we can’t because we have a certain image of ourselves that doesn’t meet the reality that we see in the mirror.

“I can’t go to the gym. I don’t want anyone to see how fat I am.”  Please tell me that you see the irony in that. You don’t need to apologize for your body to anyone. You have every right to exist.   Stop letting the word “fat” define you.

It's lights out during intimate moments, or we suck in your stomach every time our partner reaches out to touch it.

“I don’t look good in lingerie.”  You don’t have to wear lingerie to feel sexy.  Sexy is really just a mindset.  It’s my job to help to you get into that mindset.  If you feel sexy in a loose t-shirt and some boyshorts, then buckle up.  Because there’s more than one road to sexyville. .

Who said anything about lingerie? A lace gown with nothing on underneath highlights curves that don't quit.  

“I’m too fat to do a boudoir session.  I’ll do it when I lose ten pounds.” Wrong.  You’re too afraid to do a photo session.  You’re putting off an event that is a huge confidence booster, and can even give you the jump-start you need to a healthy lifestyle.   Consider the idea of doing a “before” and “after” boudoir session:  do a session now and come back after you’ve reached your goal weight. 

Your internalized shame shuts you down and diminishes the brightness of who you are.  We are far harder on ourselves than the world is.  Be fearless, not fat.

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Size Matters.

Let’s talk about size.  Sometimes size does matter.   There are times when bigger is better. 

Large art pieces are attention-getting, and statement making.  They grab your attention and set the mood. 

Imagine a six foot long framed print or gallery wrap like the one above over the headboard, or even in place of a headboard.  Add some floor-to-ceiling drapes and a beautiful chandelier and this is one very sexy room. 

Most people haven’t considered the idea of being able to commission a photographer to create such pieces.  That’s probably because most consumer photo labs don’t create prints or wraps bigger than 30” x40”.

But let’s just say that you wanted to print a 4 foot selfie, or an old photo that you scanned at home.  Most camera phones don’t have enough pixels on the sensor to print that large; the image would look “blocky” or pixelated when printed. 

Even photos done with a digital SLR will have some cropping that is likely to occur when printed, and many labs will not resize the image for you to avoid cropping.  A professional photographer will know how to prepare the file for printing. 

Then there’s the issue of scanning.  I always give the corresponding digital file when a client purchases a piece of wall art, mounted print, or a collection of images, but sometimes if the image has a texture, it won’t scan well.  You might also see “tram lines”, light banding, or out-of-focus areas.  For a complete list of issues that can be seen when scanning an image, check out THIS blog post. 

I offer you the ability to not only create a unique, original art piece for your home but can get it printed as large as you want.  Plus, how cool is it to be able to brag that you were able to commission an photographer to create a sexy piece of art?

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A Little Peek at Betty's Back End (-;

As a portrait photographer, I pride myself on the ability to provide a full service experience for my clients.  That means I continue to provide service long after you've left my studio. 

Sometimes, during the consult, that means I go to the client's home to measure wall space, and decide where a gallery wrap will look best.  We plan your perfect session where you get to look at your photos same-day, and you choose the only the photos that you love.  

I do this because I don't believe photos should languish in digital purgatory.  They are meant to be seen and touched, and I love to offer my professional input in helping you create and select the perfect piece.  Anything less isn't full-service, and my clients deserve only the best. 

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When is the Best Time to Book a Shoot for the Holidays?

It's that time of year again.  Christmas Creep is here, and the holiday lights are already up at Chez Betty.  But why you say? It's socially unacceptable!

It may be socially unacceptable at the mall, but not for photography studios.  Great art takes planning!  

In order to accommodate the longer shipping and processing times, it's crucial to get your shoot booked this month.  December 10, 2016 is my cut-off time for holiday bookings.  

I've decided to sweeten the deal for you early birds:  Book Your Shoot Now through October 31, 2016 and get a $25 gift card to Esthetics813 and get a complimentary satin and lace robe valued at $49! 

Robes come in sizes S-2X.  Choose from either Red or Black. 

To book, just click below, or call or text 813-704-0132.

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