Diamond's are a Girl's Best Friend!

I am always challenging myself to come up with new themes and this time it was all about the decadence of bathing in diamonds. Diamonds AND glitter would have been the ultimate show but we all know that glitter never goes away and I simply couldn’t fathom the cleanup of glitter.

These photos just go to show that diamonds really are a girl’s best friend and that we all deserve to shine. Leave a little sparkle where ever you go and don’t ever let anyone dull your shine!

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Wubba Lubba Dub Dub

We got schwitty with it in the studio when this client brought her entire Rick and Morty plush collection. So, I told her to “Hit the Sack Jack!” and get “Wriggity Wriggity Wrecked”! This series took me to another dimension for sure!

Riding Rick the Pickle!

Riding Rick the Pickle!

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What Excuses Really Say About You


Have you ever stopped to think about why we make the excuses that we do?   These excuses get in the way of what of we really want to do. 

Money is a big one. Maybe the granddaddy of all excuses? There are so many emotions and behaviors tied to money that identifying why we’re making excuses becomes even more difficult.  

We’ve all been to the theme parks before where an ice cream cone is priced at five times what we pay in the supermarket.   We all understand that we can buy a carton of ice cream for what it costs to buy it at the theme park.  Ultimately, we make the purchase because our experience at the theme park just wouldn’t be the same without it.  Essentially, it comes down to what we value.  Sometimes, a memorable experience matters more than money.  

We tell ourselves that we can’t afford a spa day, the massage, the concert tickets, or whatever other luxury that we’re denying ourselves.   We say, “I don’t want to come across as shallow, or self-centered.” 

We struggle with our weight but follow diets we know won’t work, or continue to eat without control because at the end of the day we don’t really want to be held accountable.  

So, what have we learned today? Being cheap can be destructive and it’s okay to make yourself a priority.   Because you’re worth it. 

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A Little 911 for Your Lingerie Dilemma: What to Wear After Extreme Weight Loss

I’ve had clients come in for a session after massive weight loss and I’m often asked what kind of lingerie is best for hiding excess skin or scars from surgery for skin removal. 

Black Mesh Overbust Corset 

Black Mesh Overbust Corset 

You’ve heard me say this one before and I keep recommending it because it’s a universally flattering piece; it’s the workhorse of the lingerie closet:  the corset.

Look for a steel-boned corset; it will hold its shape better than a corset with plastic boning. 

Bodystockings:  I love them because they show off your shape, are revealing, but still cover a multitude of perceived flaws such as cellulite, scars, varicose veins, etc.

Gowns or Lace Dresses: Sheer lace works the same way a bodystocking does but you can wear it over a pretty bra and underwear set or completely nude.   Alternatively, you can also wear a satin gown for a more conservative look.

Hi-Waisted Briefs: They look great under a lace gown or paired with a bra, elbow length gloves and some over-the-knee boots. 

Robes:  They can be worn over other pieces, and used to drape and hide certain areas. 

As women, we get so nervous about exposing ourselves in a boudoir session, but it's really more about showing who you are.  Your choice of wardrobe (if any) not only reflects your personality, but can help you feel better in your skin.  Don't let a little extra skin get in the way of expressing your sensual side.